A few years back I went out with a guy in a band headlining at the commodore. Then I found out his fiance was back home, pregnant, making wedding plans, while he was touring.
Should I have told her or kept my mouth shut?
Last year I dated a guy who, much to my surprise, was with 4 other girls at the same time. I am thankful for every girl who had the courage to tell me that my man had cheated on me with them. All of them said the same thing. "If I had of known he was dating you I never would have gone out with him that night." And that's exactly what I would have said too.
I don't think women ever intentionally want to be the "other woman" or the "dirty little secret" but that's the position they're put in when men aren't honest about their relationship and are just out to get their dick wet.
Finding a good solid man is nearly impossible.
